In this sermon, Pastor Mark walks through 6 steps the Bible teaches that will strengthen your marriage.
1. Develop an Attitude That Your Marriage Will Last. Every marriage has its ups and downs, but the key is to maintain a positive attitude that your relationship is worth fighting for. Focus on the stage of Awakening, where you accept your partner for who they are and appreciate their strengths. Understand that growth is ongoing, and both you and your spouse are continually evolving.
2. Keep Growing. Embrace the idea that both you and your spouse are God's masterpieces in progress. Just as a sculptor chisels away at a block of marble to reveal its beauty, God is shaping and refining you both. Stay open to His work in your lives, and commit to lifelong learning and growth.
3. Stay in Church. Regular attendance at church not only strengthens your faith but also fortifies your marriage. Studies have shown that couples who are actively involved in religious communities experience better health, stronger social connections, and lower divorce rates. Let the Word of God guide and inspire you as you navigate the complexities of married life.
4. Cultivate the Habit of Serving Each Other. Follow the example of Jesus, who humbled Himself to serve others. True leadership in marriage means being the chief servant, setting the tone for a culture of mutual service and support. Look for opportunities to help and uplift your spouse in everyday tasks, fostering a spirit of love and cooperation in your home.
5. Make Honoring Each Other a Major Priority. Practice honoring and respecting your spouse both in public and private. Understand their love language and make an effort to communicate love in ways that resonate with them. Whether it's words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, gifts, or physical touch, honor your spouse's unique needs and preferences.
6. Keep Talking and Listening to Each Other. Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship. Recognize that men and women often communicate differently and make an effort to bridge the gap. Practice active listening and strive to understand your partner's perspective. Be willing to take steps toward each other, fostering deeper intimacy and connection.
7. Come Back to Being God Directed. Find strength and guidance in God through repentance, rest, quietness, and trust. Surrender your marriage to His care and allow Him to work in and through you to restore and strengthen your relationship. Trust His wisdom and follow His lead as you seek to love and serve your spouse unconditionally.
No matter how challenging your marriage may seem, there is always hope for restoration and renewal. By implementing these practical steps and leaning on God's grace, you can navigate the journey of marriage with confidence and joy. Choose today to invest in the health and happiness of your marriage, knowing that the best is yet to come.